HARAGIRIMANA Dieudonne
Ingo nyinshi zo muri iyi minsi zisigaye zihama ari hamana ku buryo hari n’abasezerana kubana bagatandukana batarabyarana umwana n’imwe. Akenshi ibi biterwa no kudahuza kwa hato na hato kw’abashakanye bitewe n’ingeso zitandukanye zihariye kuri buri umwe.
Muri aka kanya tugiye kugaruka ku ngeso z’umukobwa yagira mu gihe atazihinduye gushinga arugo rugahama bikazamubera amateka mu matwi ye.
1.Ntahaga imibonano mpuzabitsina
Bigitangira biba ari sawa. Ariko niyo wagira gute uzasanga nyuma ubushake bwe utabushobora. Yifuza ko muryamana inshuro nyinshi ku munsi. Bene aba bakobwa barimo ibice bibiri; Abakunda kwiha akabyizi kenshi n’umuntu umwe, n’abakunda uwo murimo iyo bawukoranye n’abantu barenze umwe.Uko biri kose bombi nta n’umwe wowe ubwawe musore/mugabo wabasha. Byanze bikunze azaguca inyuma .
2.Ntajya akura mu mutwe
Imyaka arenda kuyingana na nyirabukwe ariko imyifatire ni nk’umwana. Gufata inshingano, ibyemezo na gahunda ntabwo ari ibintu bimureba. Mu rukundo arahumye umujyana aho ushaka. Mu by’ukuri icyo uyu akeneye ni se si umugabo wo kumurongora.
Usanga ameze nk’ushaka gusingira ubwana bwe yenda igihe cyabwo yaragize bubi. Nushaka kumugira umugore ubwo uzamushakira n’umuganga wo mu mutwe uzajya unahemba agufashe kumukuza mu bwenge. Gusa ni ‘abana beza’ kandi banezerwa, ariko niba ushaka kubaka uyu murekere abubatse yenda!
3.Ukunda rwaserera
Ubundi uyu uzanasanga akunda film za actions, mu buzima uzasanga afitanye na benshi ibibazo bidashinga, ntaho agera ngo ahave amahoro, ahorana intonganya n’abantu asanze.
Ikindi uzasanga ari umuhanga mu kubara inkuru.Kuri we ubuzima bwe ni film kandi akaba ariwe ‘type’ (acteur principale). Niba ukunda umutuzo wawe hunga mwihorere witereta bene uyu mukobwa.
4.Ukunda ibintu
Uzabona inkumi nziza yambaye neza isa neza mbese yaka! Ariko ntuzahure n’ibyago byo gusanga ikunda cyane imirimbo ya zahabu na diyama, imyenda y’igiciro, imibavu y’imitaliyani iza n’indege, inkweto zitagurirwa Nyabugogo,cyangwa muyandi ma soko yo mu Rwanda mbese akunda icyo bita Luxe.
Muri we burya nta mwanya w’urukundo kuri wowe urimo, ibyo yimariyemo ngibyo. Buri gihe azaba akubaza uko konti yawe ihagaze ngo yumve niba yabonamo ay’agasheneti kagezweho . Azi gusetsa cyane azi n’uburyo bwo kugukurura ukamuha icyo ashaka cyose.
5.Habuze gato ngo abe umuhungu
Ubundi aba nta kibazo, uzasanga mu mvugo y’ubu babita “Abajama” ngo “nta ribi rye”, n’ubundi koko nta ribi rye. Mu mico ni nk’abasore, nibo bagendana, yambara nkabo, ntasuka imisatsi ye nk’abandi bakobwa, akora sport cyane kuko n’umubiri we akenshi umeze nk’uw’abakora sport cyane.
Uyu muzapfa ahanini ko numusaba ngo yambare amere nk’abakobwa uzaba umusaba gukora ibirenze ibyo kuri we, umuntu yashobora. Nibabatumira muri Soiree yiyubashye azakuzira mu i Jeans n’ikoti maze bwana wowe usebe. Niba udakunda bene aba bakobwa wikwibeshya ukundana nawe. Mujye mugendana musangire agacupa na sport ariko ntiwibeshye ngo mukundane.
6.Ni Nyirabirori
Imibyizi na weekend kuri we birasa. Afite imyenda myinshi yo gusohokana kurusha iyo gukorana. Akurikirana akambaro kagezweho, akunda cyane kuba agaragara ko acyeye, ndetse iyo byanze arakwishotorera.Azi aho utbyiniro n’utubari dushya turi, hoteli zose azizi mu busa.
7.Akabya gukunda gusenga
Uyu azi imirongo ya Bibiliya yose mu mutwe we, avuga Imana buri kanya, arakureba ikijisho niwibeshya ugakora mu biryo udasenze. Gusiba misa ni icyaha ntababarirwa, imvura yaba igwa muragenda. Mu nzu nta kindi amanikamo uretse amashusho y’abamalayika n’ibyerekaranye n’amasengesho. Niba uziko udasenga cyane nka we wikwimena umutwe umutereta.
Muri rusange gukunda gusenga cyane kwe gutuma yumva adashishikariye cyane iby’urukundo. Kuri we urukundo ni inshingano.Nimubana witegure guhinduka nka we cyangwa amakimbirane.
8.Niwe utegeka
Uyu mukobwa akunda gutegeka ko ibintu bigenda uko ashaka. Numuha amahirwe yo kwinjira mu buzima bwawe azaguhindura irobo ‘Robot’. Umunsi wa mbere muzapanga gusangira azakubwira ahantu heza mwahurira, nuzuyaza akubwire ati “Ahubwo hansange niho njye ubu ngeze”.
Numukunda umenye ko ugiye gutakaza ubwigenge ku buzima bwawe. Azaba umugabo kuko nibyo akunda, no kuburiri bizagenda uko yabiteganyije, bene aba bakobwa iyo wamushyize mu rugo ukanyuranya n’ugushaka kwe ntatinya no kugukora munsi y’amatwi.
