HARAGIRIMANA Dieudonne
Mu rugendo rw’urukundo siko benshi barwitwaramo neza akaba ari nabyo bituma bamwe batarusoza cyangwa ngo bumve baguwe neza mu munyenga w’abakundana. Gusa nk’umukobwa ushaka kwifuzwa na buri musore hari bimwe mu bintu wakora akabasha gukundwa n’ukubonye wese kuko aba akubonamo umugore w’intangarugero.Muri inkuru tugiye kureba imico abagabo baba bifuza ku mukobwa bakayimukundira cyane.
1.Umukobwa uzi gukunda
Umukobwa uzubaka rugakomera usanga ashyize imbere urukundo kurenza ibindi byose.Igihe cyose umukobwa atagufitiye urukundo nushaka ntuzigore umushyira mu rugo kuko ntacyo wakora ngo umuntu utagukunda akubere mwiza.
2. Udahora yinuba
Umukobwa uzavamo umugore muzima ubereye urugo amenya gucunga ururimi rwe, ntabwo ahora yinubira ibitagenda akaba cyangwa se ibyo abonye byose akaba afite icyo abivugaho .Uburanga bwose umukobwa yaba afite aramutse ahora ari umuntu winuba yatera umugabo we kwicuza.
3.Umukobwa ugushyigikira
Umukobwa uzavamo umugore ukubereye umubona kare, aba yitaye ku iterambere ryawe,uburyo ugaragaramo ndetse agakora uko ashoboye kugira ngo abigufashemo.
Igihe rero ubona ko uwo muri kumwe adashishikajwe n’ibyawe buriya no mu rugo azajya agutererana
4.Umukobwa wigomwa
Umukobwa wigomwa kugira ngo urukundo rwanyu rugire aho rugera, azakora na byinshi mu kwitangira urugo rwanyu.Iyo rero mubana mu byiza gusa akishimira ibyo umugezaho we ntacyo yakora ngo akurwanire ishyaka, ntabwo ashobora kuvamo umugore ubereye urugo
5.Umukobwa ucisha make
Umukobwa ucisha make ntiyishimire gusumbya ububasha uwo bakunda, iyo agezeyo arubaka ariko iyo bigaragara ko ashaka kuba ariwe ufata buri cyemezo cyose, iyo bageze mu rugo umuriro uraka.
6.Yita ku bashyitsi akabagirira neza
Mbere yo gufata icyemezo cyo gushaka umugore, abasore babanza kureba niba uwo mukobwa azashobora kwita ku bashyitsi basura urugo rwe, kuko mu Kinyarwanda bavuga ko ‘Urugo ari urugendwa’, kandi na Rugamba Cyprien yabivuze ukuri ifuni ibagara ubushuti ni akarenge.
7.Umukobwa utikubira
Igihe mu rukundo ubona ko umukobwa mukundana ashishikajwe n’inyungu ze gusa cyangwa se ibimwerekeyeho, aba ari ikimenyetso ko atazavamo umugore muzima.
Iyo rero ubona ako ashishikajwe n’iterambere ryanyu mwese ,adakurura yishyira , bikugaragariza yuko azubaka.
8.Umukobwa udahuzagurika
Ntabwo umukobwa yavamo umugore mwiza igihe ahuzagurika . Kuba umuntu akuze mu mutwe nabyo bigira uruhare mu gutuma ahazaza h’urugo rwe hatabamo rwaserera kuko aba afite ubushobozi bwo guhangana n’uburemere bw’ibibazo urugo rushobora kugira
9.Umukobwa w’umunyakuri kandi wubaha
Umukobwa w’umunyakuri, wubaha umugabo we , udasuzugura , umuha agaciro akwiriye n’ubundi iyo umushatse arabikomeza biba biri mu ndangagaciro ze.
10.Umukobwa usenga
Umuntu wiyambaza Imana, uyubaha, umenya n’uburyo afata abantu, iyo rero ushatse umuntu utarigeze abimenya usanga ntacyo atinya, kuri we nta kirazira.Urutonde rushobora kuba rurerure bitewe n’icyo umuntu wese ashingiraho mu gushakisha umugore yakumva amunyuze ariko n’ibyavuzwe haruguru ni ingenzi.
11.Agira umwete ku mirimo myiza
Abanyarwanda bavuga ko ineza uyisanga imbere, ninayo mpamvu mu biranga umugore mwiza agomba kuba azi ko iyo ugira neza iyo neza iba izagarukira urugo rwawe.
12.Akunda gufasha abo arusha ubushobozi
Umugore mwiza ni umugore uzajya kwa muganga, cyangwa umuntu wo mu muryango we yajya kwa muganga ntabure umugemurira kuko mu bushobozi afite afasha abandi barimo abishoboye n’abatishoboye.
13.Azi kugabura ku gihe
Umugabo ntabwo akunda umugore uzamwicisha inzara, bityo iyo mukundana akabona ko uri umunebwe mu guteka, cyangwa akabona ko utazi guteka ashobora kukureka kuko aba akeka ko bishobora kuzabishya imibanire yanyu mu rugo.
14.Amenya kubana neza n’abaturanyi
Iyo umugore azi kubana neza n’abaturanyi bituma urugo rwe rugira amahoro, n’ikibazo kivutse akamenya kwegera abaturanyi bakagikemura.
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