Ibintu by’Ingenzi byakwereka umugabo uzi kwitwara neza mu buriri.

Burya gukora urukundo rwo mu buriri ni kimwe mu byongera umubano w’abakundana bikaba akarusha rero iyo buri umwe yishimiye iki gikorwa.

By’umwihariko ariko umugabo, ni we ugomba gufata iyambere agashimisha umugore we, kugirango nawe abashe kunyurwa nubwo bombi ari magirirane.Hano twaguteguriye bimwe mu bikorwa umugabo yakora bikereka umugore we ko ashobora kwitwara neza mu gitanda:

1.Kwinyonga :

Umugabo w’ umuhanga mu gutera akabariro iyo muri mu mibonano mpuzabitsina yiyegereza umugore we neza ubundi akamugwamo wese ku buryo mu gihe muri gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina agerageza akazanjya yinyonga kuburyo umugore nawe yumva nkaho ari gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina mu muziki.

2.Agusoma buhoro :

Niba umugabo agize atya agafungura umunwa we agiye gusoma umugore we,ururimi rwe agomba kurutosa ndetse akamusomana umutuzo adahubuka.Kandi iyo agiye kumusoma agerageza gufata umunwa umwe kuri umwe hanyuma ururimi rwahura n’urwe agasa n’umwenyuramo,icyo gihe umugore we aba yumva yashize ndetse ari nako agenda aryoherwa.

3.Atuma umugore we yiyumvamo ubwiza :

Nta shobora kubwira umugore we ko aryoshye wapi,ahubwo uko agenda amukora kora cyangwa amwiyegereza,niko umugore nawe agenda yiyumvamo ko ateye neza,Ikindi uburyo umugabo arebamo umugore bimutera gushaka gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina,kandi uko avuga umugabo niko umugore agenda yumva ari gushira,bimutera ibyiyumviro bindi.

4.Ashyira amaboko ye mu bice by’ingenzi by’umugore we :

Ubundi hari abazi ko gukorakora hagati y’amaguru y’umugore aribyo bintu bituma nawe ashaka gukora imibonano mpuzaitsina,hoya !Ahubwo icyerekana umugabo uzi gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina,nuko mu gihe ari gusomana n’umugore we,atangira k’umukorakora mu mutwe ubundi agatangira gufata imisatsi yawe,ayiguya guya buhoro buhoro ndetse akagera no ku matwi ayakorakora buhoro buhoro.

5.Ntanjya avuga ku byerekeranye n’imibonano mpuzabitsina :

Ubundi hariho abagabo bagira gutya bakabwira abagore babo ngo bakore rwa rukundo row mu buriri ,ariko umugabo uzi kubikora neza, ujya kumva atangiye kugukorakoraho kugeza igihe nawe yumva koko agiye muri bya bihe yumva ashatse gukora iyo mibonano ,muri make ibikorwa birigaragaza n’uburyo agenda agukorakora.

6.Azi kuyobora ibitekerezo by’umugore :

Abagore benshi bumva ko niba umugabo atazi kumenya niba umugore ashaka gukora imibonano atiriwe abivuga uwo nta mugabo umurimo.Umugabo uzi icyo gukora ni wawundi umenya ko umugore ashaka gukora icyo gikorwa, ubundi nawe agahita amenya uburyo amutwaramo.