HARAGIRIMANA Dieudonne
Guhoberana biba mu muco wacu ariko akenshi bikorwa mu gihe abantu basuhuzanya cyane cyane abadaherukana. Guhoberana rero byagombye gukorwa kenshi by’umwihariko ku bana. Abana barabikeneye cyane kuko bibafasha gukura neza.
Dore impinduka ugomba kubona ku mwana wawe mu gihe utangiye kujya umuhobera buri munsi :
1.Guhobera abana bituma mwese mwishima. Guhoberana bimera nko guseka bituma ibihe biba byiza kuri mwembi. Mu gihe umwana afite ubwoba cyangwa ababaye biramufasha.
2.Guhobera abana bituma bamenya ubwenge. Abana bagaragarijwe urukundo bakiri bato babasha kwiga neza no gufata mu mutwe.
3.Bumva bafite umutuzo mu marangamutima yabo bakumva bakunzwe mu miryango yabo ndetse bakanavuga ibyo batekereza nta bwoba.
4.Bituma umwana yigirira icyizere, bakikunda uko bameze bikazatuma baba abantu bakuru bifitiye icyizere.
5.Guhobera abana bibagabaniriza stress. Mu gihe hari ikintu kibagoye cyangwa barakaye fata akanya uhobere umwana bizatuma yirekura akongera akagira amarangamutima ameze neza.
6.Guhobera abana bibafasha mu kwerekana urukundo. Iyo uhobereye umwana yumva akunzwe kandi akumva umubyeyi umuhobera amwumva mu marangamutima ye. Ibi bifasha mu guhuza urugwiro ndetse nawe akazabasha guhobera abandi abereka urukundo.
7.Bifasha mu kubakosora (discipline). Akenshi umwana iyo yakosheje ababyeyi bahita bamuha igihano ako kanya nyamara ushobora kubanza ukamuhobera, akabanza agatuza noneho ukaza kumukosora nibwo abasha kumva neza ibyo umubwira.
8.Guhobera abana bituma bagira ubuzima bwiza. Kubahobera bifasha mu gutuma abasirikare b’umubiri bakora neza ndetse bigabanya no kubabara.
Uko ugomba guhoberana umwana neza
Nubwo muri iyi minsi guhoberana bitacyemewe kubera uburyo bwo kwirinda gukwirakwiza icyorezo cya coronavirus ariko mu bihe bisanzwe hobera umwana kenshi gashoboka. Byibura muhobere abyutse, agusezera ngo ajye ku ishuri, avuye ku ishuri, cyangwa wowe uvuye ku kazi, mbere y’uko yoga, mbere yo kuryama, ndetse n’igihe avuze ikintu cyiza cyangwa akoze ikintu cyiza.
Niba umwana adashaka kuguhobera ntubikore ku ngufu, ariko ntubireke burundu ushakishe igihe cyiza cyo kumuhobera. Ntumuhatire guhobera abashyitsi cyangwa abandi bantu atabishaka , mubwire ubundi buryo yasuhuzanya adahoberanye.
Abana bakuru bari muri mu bugimbi hari igihe banga guhoberana bisimbuze kubakoraho mu bundi buryo, mu misatsi, ku rutugu, mu ntoki.
