Abantu benshi bizera ko ukeneye amafaranga kugirango ukunde cyangwa ukundwe. Impaka zabaye nyinshi ko udafite amafaranga udashobora gukunda cyangwa gukundwa ntabwo ‘biryoshye’ ariko se ubona ari ngombwa kwitwaza amafaranga kugirango ubone umukunzi?
Muri iyi nkuru tugiye kurebera hamwe akamaro gakomeye ko gukundana ariko nta mafaranga ufite.
1. Umenya ko bagukunda by’ukuri
Iyo ufite amafaranga, uhita witiranya impamvu bagukunda. Baragukunda kuwo uriwe cyangwa kubyo utanga. Niba udafite amafaranga uzareba uzagukunda agukundiye uko uri.
2. Urukundo nyarwo ntirukunda ubutunzi
Kukuvana mu gihugu mu ndege, no kugura ibikoresho bigezweho, indabyo cyangwa imyenda ntibisobanura ko bagukunda. Urukundo rujyanye no kubahana, ubugwaneza no kwitanga, kandi ntibishobora kugurwa. Jennifer Lopez niwe wavuze ko urukundo ntacyo rusaba kandi yari afite ukuri.
3. Wowe n’umukunzi wawe muba hamwe
Ko watangiriye mu bukene ntabwo bivuze ko uzaguma muri ibyo. Mwembi mukwiye kumara umwanya mwubaka ubuzima nubutunzi kugirango mubashe kugira aho mwigeza.
4. Mubyukuri uri inkoramutima
Ubucuti rimwe na rimwe ntibisobanura kurya muri resitora nziza hagati aho mwembi muri terefone yawe kandi ushishikajwe no kohereza kuri Instagram gusa. Rimwe na rimwe, gusangira ifunguro watetse hamwe ni byo bigaragaza urukundo rwa nyarwo.
5. Urashobora kwibanda ku nzira yawe
Kurongora umuntu kubera ibyo ashobora kuguha burigihe nigitekerezo kibi. Ugomba ahubwo kwibanda ku kugira ibyawe. Mwembi mugomba kugira amafaranga. Nubusumbane niba umwe afite amafaranga undi ari we ahanze amaso.