Hari abakobwa ushobora kwemerera kuryamana na bo bikaba byagushyira mu bibazo kandi bitari ngombwa.Niyo mpamvu tugiye kurebera hamwe abakobwa umusore akwiye kwirinda.
1.Umukobwa wasinze:
Kuryamana n’umukobwa wasinze ni amakosa akomeye cyane, kuko ashobora kuba yabikwemereye kubera ibiyobyabwenge yanyweye, byamushiramo akisubira akagufata nk’aho wamufatiranye bikaba byamutera agahinda ku mutima nk’aho wamufashe kungufu.
2.Umukobwa ubikwisabiye:
Mukundana nta kibazo, ariko niba umukobwa mudakundana agusabye ko mwaryamana uzamuhungire kure kuko ashobora kuba afite impamvu ze bwite zatumye agutega uwo mutego.
3.Umukobwa wigurisha:
Hari impamvu 3 z’ingenzi ugomba kwirinda kuryamana n’umukobwa wigurisha. Iya mbere n’uko ashobora kukwigisha imico mibi akaba yanakwanduza indwara zandurira mu mibonano mpuzabitsina.
Iya kabiri ni uko ashobora kukuryohereza kuburyo kuzubaka urugo rwawe bikunanira kubera uwo washatse atakuryohereza nk’uko uwo mukobwa abikora, bikaba byatuma uta urugo rwawe ukamwirukaho.
Impamvu ya gatatu ni uko umukobwa wigurisha ashobora no kugutega imitego ituma mubyarana ukaba wanamugira umugore, ukazabyicuza ubuzima bwose.