HARAGIRIMANA Dieudonne
Akenshi iyo ubushuti hagati y’umuhungu n’umukobwa bigeze ku ndunduro yo gusenyuka, umwe aba atagifite agaciro imbere y’undi agashaka uko yahagarika uwo mubano. impamvu nyamukuru yo gusenyuka kuwo mubano ni uko umuhungu (umugabo) aba atakibona agaciro k’umukunzi we cyagwa se umukobwa (umugore) akabona inshuti ye ntagaciro igifite imbere ye.
Aha turibanda ku abasore(abagabo) ibintu bibagaragaraho iyo batagiha agaciro abakunzi babo bityo igihita kiza mu ntekerezo zabo ari uko bahagarika urukundo ari nabwo bashaka inzira cyagwa impamvu zo kuruhagarika burundu.Gusa hari abakobwa bacye bahita babivumbura ariko abandi bagashiduka byarangiye .
1.Uhinduka igikoresho cy’imibonano mpuza bitsina gusa
Ubu nubundi buryo bugaragaza ko umuhungu atagifata umukunzi we nk’uwingirakamaro.iyo umuhungu akunda bihagije umukunzi we,imibonano mpuzabitsina ntabwo ari ihame, ariko iyo atakimufata nk’uwagaciro, ihita iba ihame ridakuka mu rukundo mbese urukundo ruba rushingiye kuriyo gusa maze umukobwa yashaka kubyanga umuhungu agahita ashinza umukobwa ko atakimukunda bikarangira urukundo rugahagarara burundu.
2.Nubona akunda kwibaza byinshi cg akubaza byinshi
Rimwe na rimwe iri kosa rikunze gukorwa n’abagore cg abakobwa, bibaho k’umusore igihe arambiwe urukundo ariko mu by’ukuri nuko aba abona umukunzi we ntagaciro agifite,yibaza ibintu byinshi ku giti cye,kubandi bakunzi be ndetse no kwibaza ku buranga bw’umukunzi we aba abona butagifite umwimerere.
3.Ahazaza he ntabwo uba urimo
Iyo agukunda ugifite agaciro kuri we,ashobora kureba ahazaza he muri kumwe ndetse ibi bigatuma mu mubano wanyu mugira ibyo mutegura kuzageraho muri kumwe.Ariko iyo atakiguha agaciro,ntabwo mwarebera hamwe ahazaza hanyu na gato.bityo ibi bigatuma umubano utagira intego ya hazaza, kandi bizaba bigoye kuganira ku hazaza kugeza muhagaritse gukundana dore ko aba aribyo yifuza.
4.Umuhungu cyangwa umugabo ahisha umukunzi we ibintu by’ingenzi
Iki nicyo kintu cya mbere kigaragaza abahungu batagiha agaciro abakunzi babo.mugihe cyera yajyaga amubwira byose, ariko agatangira kumuhisha ibintu byose by’ingirakamaro mbese akabigira ibanga, akabyihererana.nkawe mukobwa , nubona umukunzi wawe atangiye kuguhisha ibyo yajyaga akubwira by’ingira kamaro,ujye umenya ko ntagaciro ugifite imbere ye.
5.Kugirana nawe ikiganiro biragabanyuka cyane
Mugihe ugifite agaciro,yifuza guhora hafi yawe igihe cyose,kumva ijwi ryawe buri kanya, kukubona no kukumva biba ari ihame kuri we. ariko iyo atakigufitiye agatima,kuvugana nawe biba bigoye kuburyo biba Atari n’ihame, mbese bikagenda bigabanyuka kugeza ubwo bihagarara burundu.
6.Amushimira gacye gashoboka cg bya ntabyo
Igihe umuhungu afitiye agatima umukunzi we,ahora amushimira kuri buri kimwe akoze,avuga ku bwiza bwe umutaka bihebuje akanagerageza ku mwenyura igihe cyose arebye muburanga bw’uw’ akunda.mugihe ibyo bitakigaragara, umukunzi we ntagaciro aba agifite,atangira kubona ko Atari ngombwa gusekera uwo akunda,nta kumushimira ahubwo aba yarigize icyabuze.
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