Akenshi iyo abantu bakundana, hari Igihe mu gushwana kwabo badahita babwirana ko batandukanye ahubwo buri wese ategereza ngo mugenzi we azabyibonere ntahite abimubwira.
Akenshi rero abantu bakunze kubabara kubera ko baba batabibwiwe ngo banamenye uko bakwiye kubyitwaramo mu gihe byababayeho bakaba barabenzwe ariko ntibabimenye.
Dore ibizakubwira ko uwo wagukundaga atakimukunda;
1. Nta cyizere ukigirira umukunzi wawe
2. Ntimubasha kumvikana ku bintu by’ingenzi mu buzima bwanyu
3. Ibishashi by’urukundo byarashize
4.Umukunzi wawe aracyakomeye ku mateka ye y’ahashize
5.Mugorwa no gukemura amakimbirane hagati yanyu
6. Kwiyibagiza ibihe byiza mujya mugirana
7. Wumva nta bwisanzure ahubwo umeze nk’ufungiranye
8. Ntimukiganira uko bikwiye
9. Ubona atakigushyigikira
10. Arakubeshya