Epaphrodite Nsengimana
Rimwe na rimwe hari abagore batwite usanga baribwa n’amabere cyangwa bananiwe cyane banatonekara umubiri wose icyo gihe aba yumva nta mugabo wamukoraho. Gusa hari n’abandi bumva bafite ubushyuhe bityo bakaba bagirwa inama zo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina n’uwo bashakanye
Ese umugore utwite yanyazwa mu gihe cy’imibonano mpuzabitsina?
Nk’uko byatangajwe haruguru ko imibonano mpuzabitsina ikorwa ku bw’inama mwahawe na muganga, igihe cyose yemeye ko wakora imibonano n’umugabo wawe, nta kintu na kimwe cyabuza umugabo kunyaza umugore we dore ko binatera benshi akanyamuneza.
Ese umugore anyazwa ate?
Ushobora kunyaza ukoresheje igitsina ,ubu buryo bwo kunyaza ushobora kubukoresha mu gukora imibonano iyo utajya usohora vuba.
Ufata umutwe w’igitsina ukawukunguta kuri rugongo(kugeza igihe haziye amazi ashyushye ndetse umugore akayamena menshi kuburyo uyumva kandi ukamenya neza ko umugore yishimye birenze kuko ashobora kuzana ayo mazi atishimye cyane.
Ushobora kandi kunyaza ukoresheje urutoki, ibi bikaba byatuma umugore azana amazi menshi ndetse bikanaza kumufasha kugera ku byishimo bye bya nyuma vuba, Kunyaza ukoresha musumba zose ugakinisha kuri rugongo uzamura umanura vuba vuba ubundi akanyara.
Gusa gukoresha urutoki biraryoha cyane kuko rwo rudahusha ku buryo kuri rugondo ahubwo ruba ruhakora neza, ikindi nuko ugomba kumenya neza niba urutoki rwawe rufite isuku kandi ntirube ruriho inzara zishobora gukomeretsa umubiri waho uri kurukoza.
Umugore warongowe neza akanyara ndetse akanagera ku ndunduro y’ibyishimo, bimuha amahirwe yo gukira amavunane n’izindi ndwara z’umutwe,… ndetse akanahorana akanyamuneza, ibi rero bikaba byaba byiza ku buzima bw’umwana yanaba atwite kuko abahanga bemeza ko mu gihe umubyeyi anezerewe ari umunezero no ku mwana.
