Hari ibimenyetso bizakubwira ko umukobwa mukundana nta mpuhwe akugirira ndetse ko atagukunda na gato ahubwo akunda ibyo ufite ,niba ubishoboye byaba byiza uhise utandukana na we:
1.Mu gihe muri kuganira akubwira ibyo akeneye kenshi
Niba ufite inshuti y’umukobwa uko muhuye aho kugira ngo akuganirize ibyateza imbere urukundo rwanyu agahora akubwira ko hari ibyo akeneye ( ati: nabuze terefone, amavuta yashize, udukweto twanjye twashaje) uzamenye ko nta rukundo afite.
Hari n’undi uhora akwereka utuntu tugezweho uko muganiriye, ati urabona kariya kajipo ukuntu ari keza, ati nkunda agasaha ka runaka ati telefoni yanjye ntikigezweho n’ibindi. Uyu na we nta rukundo agufitiye.
2.Agusaba kumwizihiriza isabukuru ye ndetse n’iz’inshuti ze
Dusanzwe tuzi ko buri muntu agira isabukuru ye y’amavuko, ibi byo birasanzwe ndetse no kuba wakizihiza isabukuru y’umukunzi wawe na byo ni ibintu bisanzwe, gusa ikigaragaza ko umukunzi wawe afite gahunda yo ku kurya amafaranga ngo yikorere ibyo yishakiye agusaba kumufasha mu kwizihiza isabukuru za bagenzi be.
Urugero: Ashobora kugusaba amafaranga yo kugura impano azaha bagenzi be ku isabukuru zabo.
3.Buri gihe akubwira ko nta buryo bwo kuguhamagara kuko nta mafaranga afite muri terefone
Iki cyo gisa nk’ikimaze kuba akamenyero ku bakobwa bose aho bava bakagera, ntabwo yaguhamaga kabone n’iyo yaba agukeneye ntiyaguhamagara ahubwo akubwira ko nta mafaranga afite muri terefone bityo agahora agusaba kumuhamagara cyangwa kumwoherereza ikarita ya telefone.
4.Ashobora ku kubwira ko arwaye kenshi gashoboka akubeshya.
Mu buzima nta muntu utarwara, gusa igitera urujijo ni ukuntu umukunzi wawe ashobora kurwara akabikubwira akagusaba amafaranga nyamara wamubwira ko ugiye kumureba ukamujyana kwa muganga akakubwira ko bidakomeye wabireka ukamwoherereza amafaranga.
Akenshi akubwira ko amafunguro asanzwe afata yamunaniye kubera uburwayi akagusaba kumuha amafaranga kugira ngo agure amafunguro yamufasha mu burwayi bwe agakira vuba.