Ushobora kwibaza ngo, ko abakobwa ari benshi mu gihugu abahungu bakaba bake mu gihugu ni ukuberiki abakobwa aribo babenga abasore cyane.
Dore impanvu rero umukobwa akubenga igihe ugiye kumwaka urukundo.
-Uriyemera
– ntiwambara neza
– uratereta cyane (uhora mu bakobwa)
-ukunda kurwana
-ukunda guhubuka mubyo uvuga byose
-ntago uzi kuganira
-uhora wirakaje
-uhubukira kubwira umukobwa kumukunda kandi utarabanje kumugira inshuti isanzwe
-ukunda kurya wenyine (ugira imico yubusambo).