Ruth Akoragye yitandukanije na Victor Kamenyo, avuga ko urukundo rwabaye amateka.

Mu gihe urukundo rw’abahanzi cyangwa abamamaye rusigaye rusuzumwa cyane n’abakunzi b’imbuga nkoranyambaga, hari ubwo abantu bibagirwa ko inyuma y’izo nkuru zose haba harimo ubuzima bw’abantu nyabwo. Ni muri urwo rwego Ruth Akoragye, umugore wabyaranye n’umuraperi w’Umunya-Uganda Victor Kamenyo, yahisemo gushyira ibintu ku murongo, avuga ibitari byumvikana ku mubano wabo, ndetse ashimangira ko urukundo rwabo rwabaye amateka.

“Nta mugabo mfite, ndi ingaragu”

Mu kiganiro aherutse kugirana n’itangazamakuru, Ruth Akoragye yavuze ko ubu ari ingaragu, ndetse nta mubano wihariye agifitanye na Victor Kamenyo uretse kuba ari se w’umwana we. Ibi yabivugiye mu buryo budasubirwaho, yirinda amarangamutima n’amarira, agaragaza ko ibyo guhuza umutima n’uwo mugabo byarangiye burundu.

“Ubu nta mugabo mfite, ndi ingaragu rwose. Abavuga Victor Kamenyo, ndashaka kubamenyesha ko ari we twabyaranye gusa. Ndamwubaha, kandi na we aranyubaha,” ni ko Ruth yabitangaje, asezeranya ko nta kindi gihambaye kiri hagati yabo.

Iri jambo ryumvikanishije neza ko uwo bahoze babana atakiri umukunzi, ahubwo ko amusigaranyeho icyubahiro gishingiye ku mwana wabo. Nta bwumvikane bw’urukundo, nta mikoranire yihariye mu by’umubano, ahubwo buri wese ahora mu buzima bwe.

Ibihe by’akarengane: Kuki benshi batabyemeye?

Mu mezi ashize, hahoraga amakuru y’impaka n’amakimbirane hagati ya Ruth na Victor Kamenyo. Hari abavuga ko ibyabo byarangiye, abandi bakemeza ko byose ari amacenga yo guteza umuziki wa Kamenyo imbere.

Abasesengura imyitwarire y’ibyamamare bakunze gukeka ko kuba Ruth na Kamenyo babura rimwe bakongera kuboneka bari kumwe, byari ubucuruzi bushingiye ku ishusho y’urukundo rwo mu ruhame. Hari ababivugaga nk’aho babifitiye gihamya, bavuga ko uburyo baba bagaragara ku mbuga nkoranyambaga bugamije gukurura imbaga, gusa Ruth yahisemo guca inzira y’ubwinyagamburiro, asobanura ko nta mukino urimo.

“Abantu bakunda kwivanga mu buzima bwite bw’abandi. Ariko njye ntabwo mfite icyo mbisubizaho. Icy’ingenzi ni uko ubu ndi njyenyine kandi ndanezerewe,” Ruth yongeyeho atuje.

Yahise anavuga ko nta drama iri hagati yabo. Nta kurwana, nta kwandagazanya, nta gutongana mu ruhame. Gusa urukundo rwarashize, buri wese afashe indi nzira. Byabaye amateka, nk’uko yabitangaje ubwe.

Mu magambo yatangaje benshi, Ruth Akoragye yavuze ko atacyifuza kongera gukundana na muntu uwo ari we wese. Yagize ati:

“Sinshaka kongera gukunda. Nararuhije. Nta gahunda yo kongera gukundana na muntu.”

Aha, abantu benshi batangiye kwibaza niba yarahuye n’ibikomere bikomeye mu rukundo rwe na Kamenyo, cyangwa niba hari ibindi bintu bimubuza kwizera ko urukundo rufite umumaro. Nubwo atigeze abivuga birambuye, amagambo ye asiga icyuho cyuzuye urwibutso rw’agahinda, ariko anavuga ko yabonye ituze mu kuba ari wenyine.

Bamwe mu bamukurikira ku mbuga nkoranyambaga bamugaragarije impuhwe, abandi bamushimira ubutwari bwo kuvuga ukuri, mu gihe hari benshi batinya kuvuga ibyo batekereza ku buzima bwabo bwite kubera igitutu cy’imbuga nkoranyambaga.

Urukundo rwa Victor Kamenyo na Ruth rwari rumaze igihe ruvugwa, rukurikirwa n’amakimbirane make make, inkuru z’ubwumvikane bucye, ndetse no kwitana ba mwana.

Hari igihe byigeze kuvugwa ko Kamenyo yakubise cyangwa yahohoteye Ruth, ndetse bamwe mu bafana be bagaragaje impungenge. Nubwo aba bombi bagerageje gukemura ibibazo byabo mu bwiru, amashusho n’amajwi byagiye bijya hanze bikomeje gukurura ibihuha ku mibanire yabo.

Gusa muri iyi minsi, ubuzima bwabo bwahindutse. Ruth yicaye wenyine mu ituze, Kamenyo nawe agenda akora umuziki we atuje. Buri wese ahugiye ku buzima bwe, rutahukire rwa muntu ruba rwararangiye.

Ese Kamenyo yaba yarabigize umugambi?

Hari abafana bakeka ko ibyo gutandukana na Ruth bishobora kuba ari umugambi Kamenyo yafashe mu buryo bwo gushyira umutima ku muziki. Ibi si bishya mu ruganda rw’imyidagaduro aho abahanzi bamwe bajya bavanga ubuzima bwabo bwite n’ubwamamaza ibikorwa.

Icyakora, Ruth yahakanye ibyo byose, avuga ko nta kinyoma kibihishe inyuma, nta buryo bwo kwiyamamaza burimo, ko byose ari ukuri nyako.

Ubu Ruth ni umubyeyi w’umwana umwe, kandi avuga ko yifuza kubaho mu buzima burangwa n’umutuzo, kure y’inkubiri z’urukundo n’amarangamutima atajyanye n’intego ze.

Yashimangiye ko icy’ingenzi kuri we ubu atari ugushaka undi mugabo cyangwa kongera kwiyumvamo urukundo, ahubwo ari ukureberera umwana we no guteza imbere ejo hazaza heza.

Ibi byamuhesheje ishema mu bantu batari bake, barimo n’abagore bavuga ko bafite isomo rikomeye bakuye ku magambo ya Ruth.

Mu gihe bamwe bamuteye ingabo mu bitugu, hari n’abandi bamunenze bavuga ko kureka urukundo atari igisubizo, ko ahubwo yari akwiriye gushaka ubufasha bw’ihumure cyangwa kwigira inama n’abandi bagore banyuze mu makuba nk’ayo.

Gusa, nubwo hari abavuga gutya, Ruth yagaragaje ko yafashe icyemezo gihamye, kandi ko ari cyo kimuha amahoro muri iki gihe.

Ruth Akoragye yahisemo gucika ku rukundo, atangaza ko ubuzima bwe bushya butagomba guterwa icyasha n’amateka y’urukundo rwe na Victor Kamenyo. Yahisemo gutuza, gukora, no kwita ku mwana we.

Ni ubutumwa bukomeye ku bantu bose babaye mu buzima butoroshye bw’urukundo: gufata icyemezo, gukira ibikomere, no gutangira bushya ntibisaba igitutu cy’imbaga, ahubwo bisaba ubwitange, ubutwari, no kwihagararaho.

Ruth atanze urugero ku bandi bagore bashobora kuba babaye mu makuba y’urukundo, abafite ibikomere byo mu mutima, n’abashaka gutangira ubuzima bushya. Nta cyo kumutera ibuyeho, ahubwo ubutumwa bwe bukeneye gutekerezwaho, busomewe mu ndorerwamo y’ubwiyunge n’ubuzima bushya.