Ibimenyetso 5 bizakwereka ko umukobwa atakikwiyumvamo nagato (yakuzinutswe) 

Abakobwa nibo bantu bakunda cyane kandi akaba ari nabo bantu bahararukwa vuba kandi cyane.

Ibi ni bimwe mu bimenyetso bizakwereka ko umukobwa atakikwiyumvamo.

1.message ngufi : igihe muri kuganira mwohererezanya ubutumwa aba akwandikira utugambo tugufi gusa akwereka ko adasha kuvugana nawe, urugero( OK, saw, Oya, yego, n’utundi twinshi).

2.Atangira kujya akwima umwanya, urugero iyo umuhamagaye atangira kujya akubwira ngo “nkupira nitabe mama cyangwa papa, ngo ndananiwe, reka nunganyirize ababyeyi ibyo kurya, n’ibindi).

3.Atangira kujya apositinga abandi basore kugirango abe ari wowe wivumbura mbere.

4.Igihe ushaka ku musoma arakubwira ngo oya, simeze neza

5.Atangira kujya akwaka ibyo azi udafite kugirango akugerageze.