Mu rukundo abantu benshi baba bumva basomana n’abo bakundana gusa hari igihe umukobwa yanga gusomana n’umusore bari mu rukundo. Muri iyi nkuru tugiye kukwereka impamvu zituma atagusoma.
Ntabwo yiteguye
Ntuzahatire umukunzi wawe kugusoma kuko hari igihe aba atari yitegura bityo wimutwara byishuse ahubwo mutware gake hari igihe azagera akabyemera kuko abakobwa nk’abo baba bakeneye igihe gusa.
Kugira ubunararibonye bubi
Hari igihe umukunzi wawe aba yaragize ubunararibonye bubi muri icyo gikorwa rero bituma adashaka kubisubiramo kuko aba atari yakira icyo gikomera.
Ntabwo umukurura
Uku niko kuri, niba umukunzi wawe atagusoma ntabwo umukuru, rero kugira ngo ubikemure icarana n’umukunzi wawe mubiganireho.
Ntabwo yiteguye urukundo nyakuri
Uko gusomana kwaba bimeze kose bishobora kugaragaza umubano nyakuri, rero nubona batagusoma uzamenye ko umubano muri kugirana ari uwo kubeshyanya.