HARAGIRIMANA Dieudonne
Ese nawe ujya wibaza iki kibazo, ukibaza impamvu mugihe cy’ubukwe umukobwa aba agomba guhagarara ibumoso bw’umugabo we. Ibi kenshi biza no mumihango, aho usanga iyo umugabo n’umugore bari bwicare ahantu hamwe, umugore yicara ibumoso bw’umugabo we.
Dore zimwe mu mpamvu zisobanurwa kuri ibyo ndetse n’inkomoko zabyo:
Abantu bakuze kubivuga bagira bati ‘NIWE KUBOKO KW’IBURYO KWANJYE’ ariko gukoreshwa cyane n’abantu benshi mu mirimo myiza kandi abantu benshi bakora neza iyo bari gukoresha ukuboko kw’iburyo.
Umugabo agomba kubera umugore we nk’ukuboko kw’iburyo. Umutima w’umugabo ni umugore uri mumutima w’umugabo. Ukuboko kw’imoso ntigukoreshwa cyane kandi gushobora kumugumana igihe kirekire cyane.
Ururimi ruba ruri mu gice cyibumoso bw’ubwonko, nibyo bituma iigice cy’ibumoso cyiharira umwanya munini mubijyanye n’isesengura ry’indimi ndetse n’amakuru. Mu buryo bujyanye n’indimi, bivugwako umuntu ukoresha akaboko k’imoso bimugora cyane kwiga izi ndimi kurusha ukoresha akaboko k’indyo. Igice cy’imbere mumubiri kitwa Spleen ugisanga mugituza ibumoso bwo kunda. Ibice byinshi cyane by’umubiri imiromo yabyo myinshi biba biyikesha igituza. Indurwe tuyisanga ibumoso bw’umubiri. Nibindi nabyo bigakomeza bityo.
Ampure ikenera charges ziri (+)ve ndetse na (-)ve, aha ntitwavuga ko (-)ve charges ari mbi kubera nkuko harimo gutwara ingufu no kuzibika, gufata ikintu ikakigumana, kandi imbaraga nyinshi zubaka ziba iri mu gitsina gore kandi zikaba ibumoso bw’umubiri w’umuntu.
Igice gikoracyane kugitsinagabo ni ingirakamaro cyane kandi kiba ibumoso, ubwo rero ibumoso niho umugore ajya kugira yibuke byose, abibike kandi arinde imbaraga zose.
Mu buryo bw’ubumenyi, umumenyi (RUSHIS) yavuze kuri iyi system.
Umugore abaye yicaye iburyo bw’umugabo, umugabo ntiyabasha gukoresha ukuboko kw’indyo yisanzuye – aka kakaba akaboko gakoreshwa cyane mu mihango nko guhereza mazi, gufata inkongoro n’ibindi.
Mumirimo imwe n’imwe, abagabo b’ibihangange/abasirikare babaga bitwaje inkota ikaba ihambiriye muruhande rw’ukuboko bw’iburyo. Umugore uri mu ruhande rw’iburyo yashoboraga kubuza uburenganzira busesuye umugabo bwo gukoresha inkota mugihe atewe. Abandi bakaba bariganije abakire/ibihangange/abasirikare.
Mu buryo buzwi kandi buhuriweho, nuko umugore agomba kuba ibumoso bw’umugabi. Ibi bikaba byaraturutse igihe umugabo yagombaga kugenda arinze umugore we yamuhaye akaboko k’imoso. Iyimoso niko kabook katabaga gawaye intwaro (inkota yo mukuboko) mugihe cy’ibyago.
Mu gihe wowe nawe mugenda mu muhanda mutembera cyangwa muri mu nzira, umugabo yagombaga kuba ari hagati y’umugore ndetse n’imodoka mu rwego rwo kumurinda imyanda cyangwa ko ibinyabiziga byamwanduza.
Muri Nigeriya ntitwita k’umategeko cyane ariko ibyo natwe biraba.
Icyo dukora kimwe hano nuko umukobwa ajya muruhande rutegereye aho ibinyabiziga binyura! Ubwo rero, iyo bombi bagenda, ibinyabiziga bikaba biri mu ruhande rw’iburyo bw’umugabo, umugore aguma ibumoso. Kandi iyo ibinyabiziga biri mu ruhande rw’ibumoso bw’umugabo, ajya iburyo!
