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Namenya gute icyo ankundira ko mbona ashishikajwe no kumenya imiterere y’umubiri wanjye ?(Mfite ikibazo)

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Ubushishozi n’ubuhanga ni impano zifasha muntu aho ava akagera,biramuyobora mu buzima ubwo ari bwo bwose,bumufasha gutahura ikiri kibi kuri we ndetse n’icyiza.
mbese bumubera itara yifashisha buri uko umuseke utambitse kugeza igicuku kinishye.Iyo ubibuze,urayobagurika rimwe na rimwe ugashiduka wakoze icyo umutima wawe uzahora ukwishyuza,,dukurikije ibyabaye ku mukunzi wacu,Melissa birakwiye ko tumusaba kuba yabwisunga,uti byamugendekeye gute?

Mu ibaruwa ndende Melissa yatwandikiye muri iki cyumweru yadusabye kumugira inama ariko kandi adusaba ko twayishyira hanze kugira ngo n’undi wese wumva ufite icyo yamubwira cyamufasha akimubwire ariko kandi adusaba imbabazi z’uko yiyise izina ritari irye kubw’impamvu ze bwite.

ati” Muraho cyane! Njyewe ubandikiye nitwa Melissa,mfite imyaka 24,ndangije kaminuza ndetse mfite akazi kampemba amafaranga akabakaba muri 650 milles(frw) ,gusa mfite ikibazo kandi nyine gikomeye.
Nagize ikibazo mu buzima kuko ubusanzwe ntabwo ngira ababyeyi bombi,mbese mfite mama gusa kandi nawe ntabwo afite ubushobozi buremereye,igihe narindi kurangiza amashuli yisumbuye nakundanye n’umusore ,ariko we akaba yarigaga mu mwakwa wa gatatu kaminuza,tumaranye igihe kigera nko ku mezi atatu,nahise nkenera nanjye kujya kwiga gusa mbura ubushobozi cyane ko mama ntakazi yigirira.

Byabaye ngombwa ko mubwira ikibazo mfite kuko yakomezaga kubimbaza,kandi ntababeshye ,namubonaga nk’uwamfasha kubana n’imitwaro y’ubuzima,nk’umwe mu bamfasha kubaho niyo atagira icyo ampa ariko akampora iruhanze,amagambo ye yabaga yuzuye ubwitonzi,ndetse ijwi rye ryari riremereye nk’irizira ikinyoma kandi rigahora rivuga ibyo n’ejo ryasubiramo,iyo twahuzaga amaso icyo gihe n’umvaga amfite kuko namubonagamo umugabo unkwiye ,ndakwiye kugira icyo mpisha,mbese numvaga mfite uwo niyegamiza mu buzima.

Kuko we iwabo batari bakennye,yihutiye kumbwira ko yumva byoroshye,ndetse ko ndakwiye guhangayika kuko ari bumfashe ,nagerageje kumubwira ko ashatse yareka kwigora ariko ambwira ko urwo ankunda rurenze ibyo nkeneye kure,kuva icyo gihe cyose ikintu kinini kigaragaza kwiyumvanamo navuga ko twari twarakoze cyari ugusomana gusa.
Yaramfashije ,ampa amafaranga maze njya ku ishuli,kuva twamenyana yari yarakomeje kunyereka ko ntarari amfitiye,ndetse yirindaga kuvuga ibijyanye no kuryamana nawe ,nanjye nti uyu niwe muzima ugendera kure ubusambanyi,gusa byaje guhinduka,nkirangiza umwaka wa mbere,yansabye kujya kumusura njyayo nk’uko narinsanzwe mbikora.

Gusa ngezeyo natunguwe no kubona ashishikajwe no kunkorakora,mbese ubona akeneye kumenya uko umubiri wanjye umeze,nabaje kugira ngo ari kinira ndamureka kuko numvaga ibyo byoroshye nkurikije urwo namukundaga….gusa siko byarangiye kuko byabaye ngombwa ko mwiyaka,maze kumwiyaka nabonye agize ikimwaro ariko acyikuramo ambwira ko ntamukunda,namwiyatse kuko numvaga nanjye ntangiye kumera nabi kuburyo byari kurangira mwirekuriye.

Namubwiye ko mukunda ariko igihe cyo kuba twaryamana numva kitari cyagera,yahise arakara ndetse yanga gukomeza kumvugisha kugeza ubwo ntashye,hashize iminsi muhamagara akanga kunyitaba,ndetse ubwo yanyitabye navugaga musaba imbabazi ariko agahita akupa,nkumva ngize agahinda ku mutima,nibajije ikintu nakora kugira yemere ko mukunda kitari ukuryamana nawe,nsanga byose kuri njye abizi,ndetse ntacyo yakemera kandi ndongera nsanga kuryamana nawe ari ukwijandika mu mazi abira.
nakomje kuguma mu rungabangabo,nakomeje kubura uwo mbaza,ariko ntekereza ko wenda na bwa bufasha yabumpaye kugira mwizere azabone uko ansambanya,nanze kubiha umwanya kuko nabonaga ari ikibazo tuzacyemura njye nawe,namusabye ko twakongera kubonana ansaba ko namusanga n’ubundi.

Icyantunguye n’ubundi nagezeyo mbona aracyashaka kunkorakora,mbese mbona umugambi we ari uwo kungusha mu mutego,namusabye neruye,ngo ambwire icyo ashaka,ariko arantsembera ambwira ko ari ntacyo,mubajije impamvu ankoraho atarabikoraga mbere ,ambwira ko ngo ubu aribwo yumva ko bimushimishije,gusa numva ankinze ikintu,ariko akomeza kunkoraho kabone n’ubwo nari namubwiye ko ntabishaka.

Icyo nakwita indwara yo kunkoraho kimaze nanjye kungiraho ingaruka,uwo nizeraga maze kumucyeka amababa,ndibaza icyamuteye kikanyobera,ubu iyo dufite gahunda yo guhura cyangwa gusohokana mba nzi neza ko nitwicara ahihereye ari buze kunkorakora,biba incuro nyinshi kandi nanjye ndi umuntu ku buryo iyo bibaye gutyo hari ubwo antera kumva natanga ubukobwa bwanjye,gusa ngakomezwa n’uko yambwiye ko tudateze tuzabikora mbere y’uko tubana.

Ubu nayobewe icyo ankundira,nonese niba ari urwo rukundo koko kuki atareka ngo ibyo nabyo bizabe twabanye? nonese kuki abikora,natangiye gucyeka ko ankunda kugira ajye ambitsa irari ryiwe,ibi bimaze imyaka itatu,ariko ndumva bikwiye ko twatandukana,cyangwa akarekerera gukora ibi,namusabye incuro nyinshi ko yarekera kunkoraho cyangwa tugatandukana ariko ansubiza ambwira ko ntamukunda na gato.

Nyamara ndamukunda gusa urwo nari mufitiye ndumva rugabanuka ntababeshye,ariko ibyo amaze igihe ankorera birenze uko mbifata kuko mbifata nko kunyishimishirizaho mu buryo butamfitiye umumaro.
nsinzi icyo nakora,ushobora kugira uti uyu mukobwa n’umutesi,ariko nawe ntiwakihanganira gukorwaho niyo ryaba ari rimwe mu mezi abiri rihoraho wazarambirwa,ndibaza ikibazo afite gusa cyaranyobeye,mumfashe mumbwire icyo nakora,mumbabarire mungire inama,kuko gukomeza gukorakorwa ntacyo byamarira ariko kandi ndakuze byo kuba nakubaka gusa ikibabaje we nibyo kubaka yirinda kubitekereza,ubuse uru nirwo rukundo koko rw’ubuzima bwa njye cyangwa narayobye ?
Niba ufite icyo wabwira Melissa witiyanya kucyandika muri Comment ,ariko kandi niba ufite ikibazo nk’icyiwe soma iki gisubizo: Dore icyakubwira icyo umukunzi wawe agambiriye.

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BIM
BIM
4 years ago

Noneho se ubu uragira ngo nkubwire iki,wowe irinde ubusambanyi,niba ushaka kubwirinda mubuze kugukoraho cg munatandukane birangire

kalisa
kalisa
4 years ago

Nukuri winsetsa ,nonese muzabana mudakoranaho bizagere ryari koko

uwera
uwera
4 years ago

Aliko ntukambeshye ,ubwo se aragukorakora wowe ntumuhe ku bintu koko ko ubeshya,gusa niba utaramuha nimkutandukane kandi byihuse

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